What's my sexual orientation?

penis over vagina usually means you are gay, and there is nothing wrong with that! i don't know how old you are, so if you are uncomfortable with coming out as gay, then don't feel the need to do it. just don't come out as bisexual (sorry you don't sound bi to me though sexuality is fluid!) i say this because bisexuals usually get a bad rap for being wishy washy when really we like to look at both vagina and penis. both do not gross us out! i know this because i know a lot of bisexual men who get turned on by both women and men, and their dirty parts! just know that when you discover the true you, whomever that may be, be proud of that. i hate to say and make judgement but you do sound gay to me. i know lots of gay and straight women who love boobies, but do not want to be commited to a woman emotionally and physically and are not attracted to what women have down there, because thats not who they are, they are gay men and straight women. thats the way they were born, and its great. sexuality is very tricky especially in your situation. i'm sorry to hear that you were molested, i hope and pray that it hasn't made you confused in who you are suppose to be and what feels right to you. the only one who can say what is right for you is you. educate yourself, get informed, what ever comes closest to who you identify with is probably what you are. in the end i can't make that decision no one can but you!